The Curious and the Experienced (Reflections of the BDSM World

I have noticed that there appears to be a lot more curious about the BDSM and Alternative lifestyle here as of late. I am not sure why this is, and doubt the community here will be able to solve the question. Though I suspect that many here will be able to provide some answers though.

So here is my question to you if your reading this. Are you experienced or just curious?

Is this a lifestyle for you or just part of your playtime?

My answers are here. I have a general curiosity about most everything. I have said for a long time, I know vast amounts of information about things which no others are interested in. (insert laugh track)

I have generally sought out information on BDSM and Alt lifestyle. While everything is not for me, I understand there are lots of things that are for others that I personally have no interest. I have a truely open mind if your kinks don't interest me I will listen to them, and not hold anything against you for them.

I have generally explored and experienced many things on the ALT kink list, not all but many. At least even tried them if I wasn't sure. I am not a true FULL TIME LIFESTYLE person in the BDSM world, (at least as I understand it) but I do enjoy it a great deal.

I am mostly a dominate male, and enjoy that portion of it. I especially enjoy sexually submissive ladies. The basic pleasures of my kinks include bondage, spanking, whips, toys, oral, anal, food, fisting, role playing, I guess when I think about it there is a lot more.

I have one fantasy that is of a submissive nature or at least I believe it is very submissive in that I would enjoy having 3 or more women that I would orally service repeatedly. I am guessing that this is mostly because I just really enjoy oral or is somewhat of thought that I should repay my use of submissive s? Not sure what that is all about.

"Now I don't know, but I been told it's hard to run with the weight of gold.
Other hand I have heard it said, it's just as hard with the weight of lead." - Grateful Dead - New Speedway Boogie

The Beginning

So I figured that I should have a blog on here. I am not really sure that there will be anything profound discovered here. I suspect it will allow me another outlet to express my thoughts and opinions wrong or right as they maybe.

Hopefully I can share some experiences of the past, present and future with the community of cyberspace.

As some background I have been online since the mid 80's I believe, so hard to remember back that far. Anyway those days there were BBS's = Bulletin Board Systems, that you dialed directly into. There was a limited ability to get to what is known as the internet, though no real domain names were used, you needed the IP address. I had an original full membership to this and many other sites but have since had those mostly removed.

I guess the biggest thing I have discovered in the time is if you thought about it, someone else has done it. Whatever you maybe into or have some interest in there is someone else in the world that does too.

I also have found that many are happy to keep to this virtual world, they will never go out and experience the real world. What a shame, but to each their own.

Well as this is only a beginning I will hope to post a bit more as time goes by. I have written some things in the past, rants and erotic stories that I may also include here.

May you have enough.

"Reach out your hand if your cup be empty,
If your cup is full may it be again," - Ripple - The Grateful Dead