I have noticed that there appears to be a lot more curious about the BDSM and Alternative lifestyle here as of late. I am not sure why this is, and doubt the community here will be able to solve the question. Though I suspect that many here will be able to provide some answers though.
So here is my question to you if your reading this. Are you experienced or just curious?
Is this a lifestyle for you or just part of your playtime?
My answers are here. I have a general curiosity about most everything. I have said for a long time, I know vast amounts of information about things which no others are interested in. (insert laugh track)
I have generally sought out information on BDSM and Alt lifestyle. While everything is not for me, I understand there are lots of things that are for others that I personally have no interest. I have a truely open mind if your kinks don't interest me I will listen to them, and not hold anything against you for them.
I have generally explored and experienced many things on the ALT kink list, not all but many. At least even tried them if I wasn't sure. I am not a true FULL TIME LIFESTYLE person in the BDSM world, (at least as I understand it) but I do enjoy it a great deal.
I am mostly a dominate male, and enjoy that portion of it. I especially enjoy sexually submissive ladies. The basic pleasures of my kinks include bondage, spanking, whips, toys, oral, anal, food, fisting, role playing, I guess when I think about it there is a lot more.
I have one fantasy that is of a submissive nature or at least I believe it is very submissive in that I would enjoy having 3 or more women that I would orally service repeatedly. I am guessing that this is mostly because I just really enjoy oral or is somewhat of thought that I should repay my use of submissive s? Not sure what that is all about.
"Now I don't know, but I been told it's hard to run with the weight of gold.
Other hand I have heard it said, it's just as hard with the weight of lead." - Grateful Dead - New Speedway Boogie
About Me
- Tripper Dude
- Average male, with a wild idea that life is about living and experiencing the world. I have decided that human beings are sexual, spirtual and enjoy the thoughts and opinions of others.
Hmmm, I think it is possible to be both curious and experienced. And experience is somewhat relative right, I have been submissive for about five years but I don't know that I would call myself experienced. Though in comparison to many of the newbie blogs I come across, maybe I am.
ReplyDeleteIt wasn't possible for this lifestyle to be just a part of playtime for us. It sounded great, but didn't work. Now it's a part of daily life and who we are as people.